The Life We were Meant to Live

The words of the Scriptures, often times a melody to our hearts, an inspiration to our vivid minds which remains to many an inescapable memoir forging our experiences moment by moment. In our darkest moments giving us comfort, while in times of fear giving us boldness; an everlasting joy dear to our hearts in promise of His presence always with us.

Is this the reality of our walk? Does it characterize our journey with the Lord? Our struggles and even more, our doubts speak contrary to the monochromatic portrait so widely espoused. The words so endearing to us, providing hope in difficult circumstances, also ironically, turns our stomachs sour in practice (Revelation 10:10). Perhaps the difficulties represent our devotion and loyalty as a testament to our God. Through our hardships, our character is forged, strengthened and proven for the sake of the Gospel. Regardless, I remain convinced whatever circumstances we are forced to endure and the choices enabling us to shape our futures will nurture the progress towards the person we desire to be. It is my belief that God, knowing us from time immemorial, presents us with difficult choices; these choices, while difficult, are ultimately choices we are glad to have made in hindsight. In difficult times, let us remember the perfect sacrifice of Christ our Savior and place our trust in God who is love and for us eternally.

Lord, my God who watches us from above

Your eyes are like the stars, each one in it’s luminescence, brightens the night sky

Your brightness drawing our eyes towards you, cloaked in mystery

Who can compare to you in all of existence, who can be called your equal

Your grace flows like the river Euphrates in all of its elegance

Your glory far beyond the brightest heavenly bodies

Your mighty hands forming the mountains and valleys

Your love deeper than the deepest of the waters

Who can create a nature so beautiful, your fresh breeze soothing my soul

May you comfort me in my time of need

May your name be glorified forever

An Intimate Revalation

Our daily lives, our walk with God, our deepest and most encompassing of our thoughts and emotions dictates our progression. Life is a continuous, never ending ascension to what we seek; each decision is a step we take to reach the mountain top. Each of those steps is characterized by various challenges and experiences, as the path forward cannot always be seen. With fervor do we wish to complete our goal, uninhibited by the challenges we continue to reach the mountain top. However, in the walk of life, what awaits at the pinnacle?


What we seek is intimacy; it is the overarching principle in life and in the Word. It is the culmination of our sorrows, tears, trials, joy and happiness. We all have an innermost desire to be known, reflective of the creator’s desires, that in His image He made us. The drive for intimacy defines the basis for all relationships in life; it’s what we all seek, but seldom find.


For it is written:


Thus says the LORD: “Let not the wise man glory in his wisdom, Let not the mighty man glory in his might, Nor let the rich man glory in his riches; But let him who glories glory in this, That he understands and knows Me, That I am the LORD, exercising lovingkindness, judgment, and righteousness in the earth. For in these I delight,” says the LORD. (Jeremiah 9:23-24)


“And so I will show my greatness and my holiness, and I will make myself known in the sight of many nations. Then they will know that I am the LORD.” (Ezekiel 38:23)


As evident from the above passages, God’s desire to be known manifests also in his actions. As we are made in His image, we too have a desire to be known. Through relationships, the vehicle for developing intimacy, we make ourselves known. Genesis 2:18 portrays this beautifully:


The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”


The innate drive for intimacy is exceedingly strong and critical to our wellbeing that the first instance of “not good” in the Bible results from man being alone.


God knows us fully and desires to be in close relationship with us. Through the core principles of love, faith and hope we engage in closeness that creates intimacy between us and the creator. These same principles also create closeness with our neighbors. Perhaps all relationships exist, such that, through those relationships we come to a greater understanding of God. God’s love is the action that enables us to be in a relationship with Him; through the washing away of our sins. As we enter a relationship with Him, through trials and obedience, we learn to trust him (faith). Our faith in Him then leads to hope, for we know deliverance is nigh. We come to understand that all circumstances in life exists solely for our benefit, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” (Romans 8:28) As we love, trust and hope in God, we enter a closeness with God that satisfies all of our needs. This same model for building closeness with God also applies to all of our relationship. In order to build closeness with anyone, it is important that we love the person, trust them and delight in the hope that they act in our best interest.

Hope in an Eternal Marriage

Each day, composed of unique challenges and difficulties, we must find the resolve to persevere in our conquest of life lest consumed by the drudgeries and frustrations. Our sorrows and troubles appear to be insurmountable, yet why do we patiently persist to see another morrow? After all, tomorrow could bring forth greater troubles and tribulation. Yet, the power of hope delivers us from the clutches of today’s circumstances and renews our strength for a brighter tomorrow.


The concept of hope is ingrained in The Word to such a great extent that it is evident in the greatest of Biblical ceremonies. The ceremony that I am referring to is the Marriage Celebration! Often considered as the greatest of the ceremonies and festivities, the Hebrew basis for wedding was established before the foundation of the world by our Heavenly Father, our redeemer Adonai Yeshua Ha’Mashiach and the Holy Spirit. In fact, the marriage ceremony is found at the heart of the gospel, the redeeming work of Jesus the Messiah; yet it’s not simply a binding of two people.


As I mature in faith, I begin to recognize that even the smallest detail in the Jewish culture is emblematic of God’s plan for His people. In the Jewish culture during Biblical times marriages were often arranged. The father assumed the responsibility of finding a suitable bride for his son and once that was accomplished it was a formality for the son to meet his bride. A purchase price called dowry was paid by the bridegroom to the father of the bride, but occasionally gifts were given to the bride as a promise of his return. Then the bridegroom returns to his father’s house to make new room to accommodate his new family; which can take roughly a year to accomplish. The day which the bridegroom returns for his bride is unknown until that very hour and often happens late into the night.


In the same way, The Word states that the father chooses whom to entrust to His Son.


“No one can come to Me unless it has been granted him from the Father” (John 6:65).

Jesus’s visitation in the flesh is symbolic to the bridegroom visiting his bride prior to the marriage ceremony.


Jesus’s death on the cross is the dowry paid to free us from sin; the price paid to purchase us for Himself.


Just as the bridegroom returns to his father’s house to prepare a place, Jesus also returns to His Father’s house to make room for His own.


“In My Father’s house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with Me that you also may be where I am.” John 14:2-3 (NIV)


As a promise of His return, Jesus gave and gives the gift of the Holy Spirit to believers, which is a free gift of God that cannot be earned. Additionally, no one knows the time of His return.


“But about that day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father.” Matthew 24:36


We are told to wait faithfully and patiently in the hope of His return. The principles of hope in the gospel are ever present in life’s circumstances. Just as the bride waits faithfully for her bridegroom, our struggles in life should be approached similarly. As the arrival is unknown to the bride, we can imagine her growing doubts as to whether her bridegroom will truly come back for her, but she finds comfort in the promise of his return signified by the gifts upon his departure.


The virtues of faithfulness, patience and hope are beneficial and have rewards in almost all areas of life. Since God is the author of this world, His principles ultimately prevail in this world by His design. Whether is it our work or something else entirely, the promise of something greater is worth hoping and striving for with exuberance. Furthermore, the fruits of hope and patience once the promise is fulfilled or when a task is completed bring exceedingly great fulfillment and joy. Through the practice of virtues such as these, character is built, which is worth far more than all the imaginable riches of this world.


As we continue our lives, we must remain hopeful in Christ for He will bring a renewal of all things upon his return. “For unto us a Child is born unto us a Son is given” Isaiah 9:6-7. A son not only given as an offering for sin, but as a bridegroom in his sacrifice on the cross, a hope given for this world in an eternal marriage.

The Nature of Love

In a world enshrouded by darkness, persuaded by its deceit and malignance, there is a ray of hope. That single ray of light is enough to penetrate the uttermost darkness; the darkest of the valleys and the trenches of the deep. That single ray of light and hope is love. Just as a mustard seed of faith can move a mountain, a single ray of love can touch hearts, form everlasting bonds and manifest God’s glory on earth.


The nature of love always appeared as an eternal mystery as I ventured to discover its meaning. As I discovered, there was more to be discovered and as I learned there was even more to learn. Yet, what are love and its nature? Is it sacrifice as according to John 3:16?


“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”


Or is it kindness and helping the needy?


“If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person?” (1 John 3:17-18)


Yet, is love forgiveness?


“Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven–as her great love has shown. But whoever has been forgiven little loves little.” (Luke 7:47)


The characteristics portrayed above are actions resulting from love, specifically sacrifice, helping the needy and forgiveness. Thus, it is important to realize that love is not simply speech or words of affirmation, but action resulting from a greater spiritual realization. It results in a personal inconvenience purely for the benefit of the other and in its purity lacking in ulterior motives. Love is seen as unconditional from the above verses. Yet, it does not fully describe love.


The Word expounds further into this matter by stating that God is love (1 John 4:8). As The Word is attributed to having the nature of God in His being, in the same way love is an unconditional state of being. Only by obtaining this state of being by the sacrifice of Yeshua Ha-Mashiach, Jesus the Messiah, can we truly express our love for others. Only in the state of being of love can we forgive our enemies, help the needy and sacrificially serve the way Christ commands because our acts are unconditional and independent of external circumstances; we act according to our nature – which is love.


The desires of the flesh are so strong that it is opposed to love and causes an altered state of mind that only by the redeeming work of the Holy One in Israel is it possible to renew our minds and conform to the character of Christ. It further clarifies why we must become like children before we can inherit the Kingdom of Heaven. Little children rarely think of themselves when deciding to act; in their innocence they act without considering the consequence to themselves. As we age, we allow the wiles of the world to dictate our actions, forget our dreams of our youth and our perseverance to pursue our passions.


Let’s not forget 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 to remind us the beauty and purity of love:


“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

A Statement of Faith!

I was always fascinated by the nature of faith. Through faith our ancestors were saved and it is also by this means we are to please God. Throughout the journey of life the complexity of the divine nature of faith seemed to have eluded me. As I traveled the furthest reaches of the east and the deepest valleys of the west, the mystery of faith far exceeded these reaches and the depths. Yet this divine mystery defines the basis by which the Christian communes with his El Shaddai, the God Almighty of our ancestors.


It dawned upon me one day that amongst this complexity, however, the mystery of faith is evident in its divine simplicity. Hebrews 11:5 states, “By faith Enoch was taken from this life, so that he did not experience death: ‘He could not be found, because God had taken him away.’ For before he was taken, he was commended as one who pleased God.” The above passage is conclusive in illustrating that faith results in a lifestyle that is pleasing to God; however, the lifestyle is the fruits of faith – it does not adequately describe faith. One can be considered righteous, yet it is the works of the righteous through faith that God distinguishes as His own. As a righteous lifestyle results from our faith, so does faith results from knowing God intimately. The intimacy, which was only possible by Christ’s sacrifice on the cross, paves the road through trials by which our faith matures. By trials do we recognize God’s strength; His faithfulness becomes evident and God’s innermost desires and character are revealed, through which we are molded to become like His Son.


Only through faith is it possible to lead a lifestyle that is pleasing to God. By not only understanding God’s character, but knowing it personally and intimately can we make choices that are reflective of his character. Faith is not receiving direct instruction from God concerning the course of action one must make, yet it is the beliefs and choices which are in alignment to God’s will resulting from an intimate relationship with our creator. Just as an obedient child pleases their father and mother, in the same way we are to please our Heavenly Father through faith.


Living by faith certainly has its challenges. As we mature in faith, the prevalence of sin becomes more evident and our choices are often at enmity with the popular belief. It often creates isolation and can result in loneliness and persecution. However, God is faithful, even when we are not, and promises to be by our side during trials and tribulations. Why do we succumb to the wiles of our imagination? Did Yeshua Ha-Mashiach not say “And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these.” Matthew 6:28-29. Being in a relationship with the Lord is more fulfilling and gratifying than the greatest splendor and temptations of this world. The richness that persists in close communion with God is the greatest joy one can experience and is the only way to lead a truly fulfilling life.

An Otherworldly Struggle!

Life comprises of series of struggles and joys.  Every moment of our life is filled with joys and sorrows; the memories which we ever so cherish forms our experience that belong only to ourselves.  Yet, who do we struggle with?  Is it man, life circumstances, ourselves or is it with God?  Genesis 32:24-28 paints a beautiful picture about a man coming to terms with his identity, one who endured many struggles throughout his life, only to struggle once more.

“So Jacob was left alone, and a man wrestled with him till daybreak.  When the man saw  that he could not overpower him, he touched the socket of Jacob’s hip so that his hip was wrenched as he wrestled with the man. 26 Then the man said, “Let me go, for it is daybreak.”  But Jacob replied, “I will not let you go unless you bless me.”  The man asked him, “What is your name?”  “Jacob,” he answered.  Then the man said, “Your name will no longer be Jacob, but Israel, because you have struggled with God and with humans and have overcome.”

Jacob, the deceiver, in his defeat to God at the brink of the morning, seemingly after an advantageous fight throughout the night, clinging onto what appears to be God’s feet in humility, asks to be blessed.  God, our heavenly Father, then asks the question that was once asked by Jacob’s earthly father, to whom he deceived.  This time Jacob realizes the implication of his struggle in conjunction with his identity which leads to the monumental realization that his struggle was with God all this time.  God blesses Jacob and gives him a new name, a new identity forged from the birthplace of wisdom; the understanding that apart from God we are nothing.

Our life brings forth many struggles, yet we are distracted by the worries of the outcome of the struggles that we forget that midst the chaos God is shaping our character.  Our struggles are not worldly, instead it is a struggle to claim our identity; the person who God wants us to be as opposed to who we are as a result of the fallen world.  We must ask ourselves, is ourselves not more important to God than the external circumstances to which we blindingly hold fast unto?  Does God not promise to test us beyond our capabilities, for he will direct us in a path to flee from temptation?  Isn’t our character worth more than all the treasures of this world?  As Booker T Washington once said, “Character, not circumstances, make the man.”

God initiates the struggle, wanting for us to realize that we have no control over life’s circumstances, that faith and hope ultimately dictate our peace.   The assurance that God will provide us with all of our needs.  It is difficult to trust in God when we are emotionally distressed and our life is falling before our eyes.  We question God’s promises, whether they were a fragment of our imagination; however, God is faithful and he blesses those who are faithful to him among strife and uncertainty.  I’ve yet to witness an individual who puts their trust in the Lord whom God failed to deliver.  We should rejoice in our struggles and tribulations, for God chastens and rebukes those whom He loves.

Walking With God

“Enoch walked faithfully with God; then he was no more, because God took him away.”  Genesis 5:24.  A statement so profound, in all the Wisdom of Solomon, the military might of Caesar and the intellectual giants of history, there is no achievements in all their greatness that equates to the character that is evident by the one who walks with God.  In that single statement, more can be conjectured about Enoch than all the men whom the world holds in its esteem.  What is so exceptional about walking with God that resulted in the individual being taken away?  Walking with God requires an intimate understanding of God and his desires.  It requires a submissive heart that places the will of God above their own.  It is the pinnacle of an individual’s faith whereby their thoughts closely matches that of God; an understanding that requires no further clarification or explanation.  It closely models two friends who are emerged in their conversation that they have no concern for anything else that might be transpiring.  In fact, the Bible only specifically mentions two individuals by which the phrase “walked with God” is used and it is never used in the same context and intimacy as it is used for Enoch.

I believe there are three stages to our walk with God.  First, we walk before God as children; eager to learn and try new things.  It is the critical period where we discover God and establish a framework by which we approach Him with petitions and praise.  Next, we walk after God as His servants.  This is the stage where the individual recognizes the voice of God and responds appropriately.  It is a stage that is represented by service and sacrifice; when we learn to concern ourselves with the needs of others and act purely for their benefit without ulterior motives.  Thirdly, we walk with God as His friends and as previously described, it is the most intimate stage of relationship with God and the ultimate destination for any that profess themselves as Christian.

While I was in college, God put in my heart the passage regarding Enoch’s walk with God.  As I read all the passages concerning that topic and wondering about all the implications that had on an individual, God opened my eyes for a week and showed me what it feels like to walk with Him.  Due to my imperfection, I was not able to maintain that walk for more than a week; however, God’s reassurance was that if I continue to seek and grow in Him, I will one day reestablish that walk.  That week was perhaps the greatest week in my entire life.  I saw the world by which God viewed it; able to discern the brokenness and shame that prevents people from truly experiencing the joys and peace resulting from their relationship with their Creator.  It was a week filled with an intimate relationship with God which brought forth contentment and great joys.  Why was I unable to maintain my walk furthermore?  Because at the depths of my heart, my desires were worldly.  I didn’t fully appreciate God’s love and mercy in such a way as to merit the intimacy and joys that were part of walking with God.  My heart needed to be refined further and my desires needed to be mended to reflect God’s holiness.  God’s reassurance gave me comfort and motivation to seek Him continually and I understood that God understands us in our imperfection.  He knows our struggles and obstacles that are a hindrance to our relationship with Him and is continuously working to refine and purify the substance that is our character.  God wants all of us to experience an intimate relationship with Him, to walk with Him and He so desires to be our companion and friend, but the commitment is difficult.  It requires sacrifice and occasionally trusting in God when everything looks bleak or hopeless.  But through the struggles, we grow closer to God and understand the suffering that God experiences as a result of sin.  It is by overcoming our struggles with God do we understand who He is and have the spiritual maturity to merit our walk with God.

Honor Thy Father and Mother

During my adolescent and teenage years, this was perhaps the most overlooked commandment as I was bent on my quest for rebellion against my parents.  At that time I failed to realize the importance and significance of what is undoubtedly the greatest earthly commandment given to mankind by God.  In fact, it is the only commandment with a specific blessing for those that observe it, which is – “that you may live long and that it may go well with you in the land the LORD your God is giving you.“ Deuteronomy 5:16.  My unwillingness to become accustomed to this commandment was indicative of a greater sin in my life, which was a sin of rebellion against none other than God himself.  At the time, I sincerely believed that I was a child of God and that I had favor with Him; that it was my parents who were dissolute and in need of enlightenment.  In my arrogance I failed to understand humility and was lost on a path of darkness, reluctant to remove the blindfold that kept me captive and bound with chains to sin.  I did not partake in the blessings resulting from observance of this commandment and I questioned why my life was so broken and lacking fulfillment; yet the answer eluded me in its simplicity.  It was not until I started honoring my parents that my life turned around.  And this time the conviction came from my heart.  I understood, from God’s perspective, the fulfillment and joys that this commandment brought forth and have never turned back.

The first four commandments pertain to our relationship with God and the remaining six concern our relationship with mankind.  To honor thy parents is the fifth commandment and resides at the pivotal location as it is the transitional commandment which bridges our relationship with God to our humanistic commitment.  I am not advocating that one commandment is more important than another; however, perhaps there is significance in the ordering of the commandments.  One viewpoint to consider may be by the order of consequence or impact, with the commandments that produce the greatest impact or the greatest consequence for disobedience appearing first.  Another significance of listing order could be based upon how the commandments should be prioritized.  I lean towards the latter; regardless, it stands to testament how profound this commandment is as there is no other commandment apart from our love of God that greatly describes the extent to which we should love our neighbor.  Our obedience to our parents is symbolic of our submission to God and is the physical manifestation of our spiritual relationship that we experience with God.  In fact, it is said that “Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen.” 1 John 4:20-21.  If we have difficulty honoring parents who ultimately wants only what is best for us, how will it be possible for us to love our enemies as God has commanded?  Why do we often dismiss our parents’ ideas as wrong, when they have more years of experience on which to draw for deciphering which course of action is best for us?  Sometimes it seems that honoring our parents requires of us a great deal of sacrifice.  It means sacrificing our innermost desires at times to honor and please our parents.  Obedience requires a broken and selfless heart that prioritizes the needs of others above our own desires. Such selfless action closely models what our relationship should be with God.  It is much easier to love and serve fellow mankind once we establish an honoring and obedient relationship with our parents.  From my experience I can deduce that those who honor their parents genuinely and lovingly develop into more caring, giving and sacrificial individuals.  It stands to reason that God blesses those who follow His commandments, giving them a long and good life.  After all, the adherence to His commandments requires a person to develop a virtuous character; much as gold is refined when passing through fire.